So why Vietnam and what the heck are you doing over there?
Up until now my life has been on an interesting path….one that is out of the
ordinary….there are so many reasons why we have chosen Vietnam to explore and
take advantage of work opportunities while they exist.
Reason 1: I grew up in the 70’s and early 80’s when the
Vietnam War was in full flight. Children who looked different to me started appearing
at my south side suburban Sydney school. A girl called Tu Lee and a boy name
Phat. Tu Lee was in my sisters’ class and became good friends to my older
sibling. We got to know her and found out she was a refugee form a conflict
that was merely eight and a half hours plane ride from my school but for some
reason not understandable to my eight year old brain Tus’ family came by a small
wooden boat. This always intrigued me.
Reason 2: By the time I reached high school in my second
last year History class in the late 80’s the syllabus was all about the after
effects of the discord between neighbouring countries in this region of the
world. Remembering this was an era that still depended on text books for
teaching about historical events and current events were kept up to date via
the newspapers delivered by the paper boy at your front door. I was given an
assessment by Mrs Smith my History teacher to collect any article I could find
in the local news about Vietnam and Cambodia. I was dumb founded by the horror
that I discovered. People being killed, skulls piled up high in photographs of
evidence of mass slaughters. Children being born with deformities because of
exposure to chemical warfare, people who had limbs missing due to land minds
and little innocent children losing fingers and toes and having chronic skin conditions having been covered in a mist of yellow vapour that masked everything in its
path of destruction. Agent Orange was an herbicide that desolated everything in
its path….not just the jungle clearing within a week but also
all those who came into contact with it…including US and Australian troops and
the local people. My heart went out to all those involved and I had a strange
feeling that one day I would see this land first hand.
Reason 3: In the mid 90’s I made friends with a beautiful family
who had 5 daughters. Four of the daughters were of natural birth and the fifth
daughter Kelly was adopted from an orphanage in Vietnam when she was a toddler. Kelly was the
same age as me when we met…21…but she seemed so much younger. She had a childlike
innocence about her and I bet she still does today. Kelly had brain damage. The
Australian doctors had found shrapnel in her head and also the remains of nails
that had been driven into her skull by witch doctors to cure the
shrapnel injury. (Side note…I don’t think the Witch Doctor obtained a
legitimate degree) When I had each of my babies I made sure that Kelly had the
opportunity to nurse them with her good arm while we sat in church each Sunday.
I could tell by the massive smile on her face that babies made her happy and
that she longed for one of her own. Her maternal instincts were ever present in
spite of her acquired brain injuries. Kelly and her loving family touched my
heart.
Reason 4: I have heard it said that Mormons are a peculiar people….I
would have to 100% agree with you. Mormons believe in latter-day revelation. We
believe in personal revelation by one who is ordained to give a special patriarchal
blessing that can help guide us in our own journey. “Every worthy, baptized member is entitled to and should receive a
patriarchal blessing, which provides inspired direction from the Lord.
Patriarchal blessings include a declaration of a person’s lineage in the house
of Israel and contain personal counsel from the Lord. As a person studies his
or her patriarchal blessing and follows the counsel it contains, it will
provide guidance, comfort, and protection.” Lds.org. Both my husbands, my own and
daughters Patriarchal blessing has guided us to this point in our lives, and yes some might think this is peculiar...taking life instructions from a blessing granted unto us...but everyone is on their own journey in this life and who is to judge us for the value we place on our spiritual connections. Each to their own I say!
Reason 5: I attended an Anthony Robbins seminar last year
and met a woman whose life enthralled me. Her name is Minh and she was also a
refugee from Vietnam. Her family came over by boat when she was two. As a child
she said she felt that it all happened as if it was a story about another
little girl and not exactly happened to her….this was until she saw footage of
her being held by her parents in the boat and a documentary was made about her
family and other survivors of this journey including encounters with pirates
and wild high seas weather. Her story fascinated my imagination. I have link
her documentary to my page so you can see for yourself.
Reason 6…Employment…straight up…Although Dean runs his own
business we would love to travel more and have an income stream outside of
Australia. Although Dean can’t physically see the world he can certainly experience
it. Teaching is a way we can give back to the world and is a job that Dean is
totally capable of doing.
Reason 7: This is the most important reason….Deano and I
love adventure. We have moved home 19 time in 25 years and we live to seek out
new challenges, meet new people, and do new things. It’s a way of keeping our
lives exciting.
Here I am on a reconnaissance mission really…to study while
Deano is back home packing up our lives and all the while I checking out the possibilities
for our future. It’s all so very exhilarating knowing our life is going to
change once again!
So I invite you to read along, make comments, ask questions
as I let you know about the strange yet thrilling experience that I am having
here in Vietnam…and share with me the sights, the culture but perhaps not the
smells that come from this fascinating land with it smiling kind hearted people.